Proverbs 21:5 - "The plans of the diligent lead to profit as surely as haste leads to poverty."" (NIV)

Look before you leap is a common phrase, but there is a good reason. Sometimes we tend to take action on things before we really think them through. In some circumstances the consequence is just a little embarrassment to ourselves, but in others people often get hurt.

One thing God asks us to be is diligent. This means giving our actions due attention. Sometimes we can be told we over think things, but if we truly want to do things well, we have to think before we act. Does that mean life can't be full of spontaneity? No, but being diligent does mean being smart. It's amazing how much giving our actions a few extra seconds of thought can make a change in our lives.

Many of you might be out shopping today, taking advantage of all the discounts that retailers provide. Yet, there is also a level of patience and kindness that is needed on a day when it seems like everyone is out for themselves.

Last year a woman was trampled to death while the crowds ran her over trying to get into a store when it finally opened. Are those big sales that important that we lose all sense of caring for one another?

Today just keeping mind that we may want to try and get the best deals to remain as frugal as possible in these trying financial times. Yet don't forget that all the other shoppers are also human beings. Keep your Black Friday experience kind by showing the patience the Bible preaches. You'll have a lot more fun that way.

It's that time of year where we gather with family and friends to stuff ourselves full of turkey, stuffing, and mashed potatoes. For those of us that are blessed to enjoy the company of those we love, it often comes easy to find the things we are thankful for.

However, let us not forget those that don't have a place to go for Thanksgiving. There are those that are struggling financially. Those who do not have family. Those that are serving in our military far from home...and the list goes on. Thanksgiving is a good day to remember to say a prayer for those that may not have the opportunities we do to celebrate the holiday.

Proverbs 15:15 - "For the despondent, every day brings trouble; for the happy heart, life is a continual feast."" (NLT)

Sure, we all have times when we feel like all is lost. I don't really know anyone that hasn't faced some sort of heartbreak or trouble in their lives. Yet, sometimes we need to learn when to work through our sadness and appreciate the things we do have in our lives. This verse is not saying you cannot be sad about what is going on in your life. What it is saying is to not be sad for things you don't have and learn to appreciate the things you do have.

Finding joy isn't about having the next big thing, a boyfriend, the right clothes, etc. Finding joy in the Lord matters more. Have you ever seen a poor person who is just overly joyful in his or her life? Often those people have learned to find contentment in what matters. Think this week on what means the most to you in your life and what God thinks should matter most. You might find yourself in a feast of joy you didn't know existed.